Kjeldgaard Family

Bringing Hope in Kisumu

In Uncategorized on September 25, 2010 at 9:51 am

Thursday I did many things I first did over 20 years ago.

-I smelled methane gas spontaneously combusting on a city garbage dump while watching kids scavenge through the trash still pouring off of the latest garbage truck to arrive.
-I crept through narrow allies and around crumbling buildings of a slum where children play in sewage water.
-I used a squatty potty in the midst of that slum.
-I tread over paths made of garbage and rot and inhaled air thick with the stench of poverty and filth.
-I teared up when passing malnourished children staring through hollow eyes while clinging to the door-frames of their shacks.
-I was mobbed by scores of shrieking, happy children wanting to shake hands with one of the few white people they’d ever seen.
-I saw beautiful smiles on filthy kids.
-I was encouraged by incredibly dedicated men and women who are bringing hope to the poorest of the poor with joy.
-I was in a place where most people never want to go and where Jesus definitely is.
-I felt that I belonged.

Surrounded by beautiful children who attend school at KAG Siany.

In 1989 I first saw Compassion International at work in Pasay City, Manila, Philippines. I was convinced then that Compassion was doing an incredible job reaching out to children in poverty in Jesus’ name. In the years since then I’ve become more convinced of that fact as we’ve sponsored numerous children, received at least a hundred letters from those kids, and have gotten involved with the Advocate Network. But today was the first time in 21 years that I got to visit a Compassion Project.

Eric, Kate, and I became the first sponsors to ever visit the KAG Siany project in Kisumu, Kenya that has been operating for just 16 months. 293 children in this project are receiving weekly educational tutoring, spiritual training, health care, and meals. When this Compassion site last enrolled children, they had space for 67 children to join. Over 700 kids applied. Today we met once of those 67 children, Ashley, the beautiful, five-year-old girl we sponsor for our own daughter, Grace. We were treated like honored guests as we went through formal introductions and listened to the project director tell us about their work and Compassion’s vision for the children they assist. The church that hosts the Compassion Project also runs a preschool with 150 children and the students mobbed us as we toured the project site. We were then treated to tea and finally had a chance to walk hand-in-hand with Ashley as she shyly led us through the filth of the slum to her school. In the Kenyan educational system, there are three years (baby class, middle class, and preparatory class) of preschool before beginning elementary school. Ashley’s mom had chosen a small preschool, wanting Ashley to get more attention than she might have at a big school. Ashley is consistently in the top three of the nearly 30 students in her class. Yes, we were proud sponsors.

After visiting the school, and speaking with Ashley’s teacher, we walked to Ashley’s home. I was thrilled as we passed through the slum and into a wide-open grassy field. As the end of the field was a typical Kenyan family compound and on this property was the modest mud hut that Ashley lives in with her mother and great grandmother.

With Ashley and her mom in their home.

Eleven of us crammed into the 10×10 room that held a twin bed, a dresser, a coffee table, two chairs and a couch. We had another round of introductions for the grandmother’s sake and then were able to hear from Ashley’s family what benefits they’d seen since Ashley became part of the Compassion project. Both Ashley’s mom and grandmother beamed as they told us through translators that Ashley came home with a full belly, that she loved the lessons and games, and that she was being helped and encouraged in her school work. We had a chance to give Ashley and her family some gifts and then Eric prayed for their family and all of the children sponsored there in Siany. After lots of photos we made our way back to the church where Eric took the opportunity to teach Ashley how to jump rope. It was side splitting hilarious! The Compassion cook treated us to a feast of beef, chicken, vegetables, and ugali, all eaten with our fingers. The project director again asked Eric to pray for their project and after another round of photographs; we were off trudging through the slum again.

I'm pretty sure Eric has never done this with OUR children!

There weren’t any dramatic moments during this day. No tears on behalf of an incredibly thankful family, no striking story of a rise from near death to health, no drastic turn around academically. Instead there was this. We saw that Compassion does what it says it’s going to do.

Ashley is fed two nutritious meals each time she’s at the Compassion Project. She’s tutored academically. She receives health screenings. She is taught lessons of character, of social skills, and vital health education. She worships God and learns about Jesus. Most importantly, she has enough.

Wes Stafford, president of Compassion, often says that the opposite of poverty isn’t wealth, it’s enough. We saw that in practice during our visit to Ashley. Lord willing, with the help of the Compassion project, Ashley now has what she needs to grow into a healthy young woman who serves the Lord, knows how to live a healthy life, is socially responsible, and economically self-sufficient. In the midst of the Manyatta slum, Compassion has brought Ashley hope.

Ashley

Great News!

In Child Development Sponsorship Program, India on March 15, 2010 at 1:36 pm

Proud New Sponsors

While Eric was in India we got into a Skyping routine. We’d Skype as I was waking up and he was ready to drop into bed and then later in the day we’d Skype as he was getting up and ready to start his day. Often we chatted about the blog posts he was writing and I remembering him saying, “If one child gets sponsored because of my blog, writing these will all be worth it!” Well, you can imagine our joy when we received this email:

I wanted to thank you and Eric for posting about Eric’s trip to India. We haven’t finished reading the last couple of posts, but we have decided to sponsor a child for the first time. We received our packet today and I loved watching my children get excited about it. Matthew pulled out the atlas and was reading all about Colombia, and Kelsey has already started a letter and pulled out our Spanish Junior Adventure program to start learning some Spanish again.

Thank you again and may God continue to use your family to encourage other families to become sponsors!

When I wrote to ask Yvonne’s permission to put her note on our blog she added,

We are currently reading a book from the library about Colombia so that we have a better idea about the country where Natalia is living.

Eric and I are thrilled beyond words that Natalia has found a sponsor and know that Kevin, Yvonne, Matthew and Kelsey will be blessed as they get to know her through her letters.

Rejoice with us!

Helping Babies Survive

In Child Survival Program, India on February 21, 2010 at 9:31 am

I’ve briefly touched on the CSP’s in my previous posts. However, it is time to devote more information about these great outreach programs! The Child Survival Program (CSP) was started because Compassion staff realized that the first five years are crucial in the development of a child and this development directly affects the quality of adult life. Since infant mortality is extremely high in many parts of the world, the first priority in promoting effective child development is to ensure that children survive the early years. This means that educating the mother or primary caregiver, before and after her child is born is essential to the wellbeing of each precious little one. At each Compassion CSP education is being provided in the following areas:

Growth Monitoring
Oral Rehydration
Breast Feeding
Immunization
Female Literacy
Food
Family Planning

Additionally, Staff is involved in early interventions concerning:

Health/nutrition
Fine/Gross motor development
Cognitive stimulation
Socialization programs
Exposure to Christian teaching and the gospel

I’ve now visited two CSP’s, one with 50 mother/child units and one with 69 mother/child units. These women gather together one day a week to hear God’s word and receive encouragement in all of the areas listed above. I’ve sent along some photos from the most recent CSP I visited today. The cute little one I’m holding is Emmanuel. He had just awaken when it was time for a weigh-in and length measurement. I had him calmed down during his weigh-in and kept touching him through the measurement. I picked him up and all the ladies thought it was pretty funny for me to be holding the baby. When they heard I had eight children they seemed surprised and smiled…… and in the context of the lives of these women and children and what they need to do to survive each day I assume they were thinking that Lisa was a supermom (yes- she is!) to have eight children. In fact Emmanuel was so content in my arms that he decided to just completely relax…. all over my arm. 🙂 The picture was taken after his “relaxation” time and you can see he is much happier, and so am I!

When we questioned them about why they liked participating in the CSP, here’s what they said.

“Before CSP I did not know how to properly take care of my baby. I would take water from the Pond or not properly sanitize the utensils for the babies.”

“Before the CSP I did not know how to run my home. My husband and I use to get in lots of arguments. Since I’ve been in the CSP, there are no more arguments.”

“My child is healthy because of the CSP and now I know what to do if he/she becomes sick.”

“Before the CSP we did not know Jesus. I heard about Jesus at the CSP. We read the Bible and tell Bible stories. The Pastor is very kind and I accepted Jesus into my life and was baptized. My family attends church every Sunday now.”

“Now I am able to write my name. I have a greater confidence about my abilities to be a good wife and mother. Other women in the neighborhoods look up to me and ask me questions about their children.”

The last house visit we made today was to a young family of three and the baby was only three months old. Dad sometimes works as a plumber. This mother and father were in their early 20’s and had such a great joy and peace about them. They were so thankful to the Lord for allowing them to participate in the CSP program which allowed for a safe and healthy pregnancy and delivery of their little girl. There were ten in the family who lived in the two dwellings on the property. This couple was shy and humble. They both said they came from Christian families (very unusual) and knew the Lord before entering the CSP program. Again, their smiles and joy was infectious. It was time to leave and I didn’t want to. I just wanted to sit for a couple more hours and talk with this amazing family. What an encouragement they were to me. Two of the cousins stood and used cardboard pieces to fan us the whole time we were in the home to cool us down. These were servants with big smiles! We left our basket of food thank you gift, I snapped the attached photo and we were off once more. I cried as we left not for any other reason than I was so in awe to see what God is doing inside this family, in this little home, in this little town 2.5 outside of Chennai, India. God is bigger than we can imagine.

The staff at the CSP’s help share Christ and empower these women to begin a life of joy and peace and confidence. For $20 a month you can help support one of the CSP projects around the world. Lives are being changed, families are coming to know the Lord, husbands and wives are reconciling! This is a stupendous program that needs our support. If you have more questions about the CSP program and want to know additional specifics, please send me an e-mail and let me know. I’m convinced more than ever that the Lord is using Compassion, it’s local staff and church partners to impact not only moms and babies but families and communities!

Soli Deo Gloria!

EK